http://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=3739913
Perhaps it was the title? Almost makes a case for the reverse of HN's policy on using the original article title.
Flagging something do to a perceived "possible flamewar" is no better than lame use of fallacies to discount such a commonplace and pregnant problem.
Flagging might explain disappearing, but does it explain that the front page is all out-of-order?
Unless, of course, your purpose is not to convince the other side to take down the video, but make as much of a scene as you can.
They could have handled it a lot better. Bringing her employers into it? Etc.
Still, this is a good example of how NOT to handle a complaint. Both sides are at fault here, IMO.
In any case, this doesn't really fit on HN I think.