> It must be an absolutely horrible of a mix in the US for this to be 8:10.
The US is quite large so this is a YMMV thing. I solve this issue by just not associating very much with my ex-countrymen. I get enough of them when I go to visit my parents, I don't need to constantly mingle with more Indians. I have a solid set of diverse friends (one or two are Indian).
It helps that in my workplace I tend not to think of anyone as a 'friend' and just keep my interactions professional.