If your transactions are on independent topics, you can distribute the load by sharding leaders: assign ranges of the key space to different leaders and manipulate the elections so each node has a reasonable share of leadership.
You can go leaderless and structure each write as essentially an election: broadcast the tenative transaction (or a request to transact, if the transaction is large enough) to all nodes, if you get a quorum of acceptance, you win and can commit the transaction. But if multiple nodes attempt transactions near the same time, consensus may be time consuming. If you have many nodes, and they all have pending transactions for the same topic, electing a leader and sending all transactions through the leader is going to be a lot faster than establishing consensus on every transaction individually.