No, you can make any upi id, like emails. Apps, being lazy, start giving phonenumber@app id to its new users. I always have used custom@app upi ID.
I’ll avoid repeating my previous comment [1], which has details on this. Unlike the mistaken belief of several people on this post, UPI does share the phone number even if a person uses an alphanumeric UPI ID instead of the initial or common phonenumber@provider address.