This feels pretty aggressive, I think we're on a different wavelength here. That's not quite what I'm saying, but it seems best for us to leave it at that.
> it's a bit frustrating as it actively causes rifts that make it harder for me to do professional work.
My comments that you are taking that I'm being aggressive is that you have made your professional frustration about your feelings. These issues isn't who else uses the meme, but that the meme spreads a bad idea that makes your professional life harder.