I am late to the party but people here need to understand this whole issue from a factual data-based viewpoint rather than from biased anecdotal articles.

For Western audiences the article they should read is Social Realities of Indian Americans: Results From the 2020 Indian American Attitudes Survey by Carnegie Endowment - https://carnegieendowment.org/2021/06/09/social-realities-of...

The above is the third in a 3-part series on Indian-Americans. Links to the other two are in the article and are worth reading.

This whole (non-)issue in the US is entirely due to the shenanigans of "Equality Labs" of dubious origins/connections/research (the data is from a survey they did on Reddit!). See also: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=37333207