The answers and comments on [0] would seem to suggest that's not true.
Seems the power grid has the capability of delivering three phase power, but many (most?) homes in quite a few European countries don't actually have all three phases delivered.
> No matter how you put it, the US residential power grid is conceptionally lagging.
That's only the case if you believe the US is "missing out" on all that much with our split-phase setup. I don't think that's the case, really. Even for EV charging, using the 240V across the -120V and 120V lines is more or less fine. We've been doing the same thing with our electric stoves, water heaters, etc. for quite some time now.
Certainly there are some things you can do with 3-phase that aren't really feasible with split-phase, but I don't think most people living in the US care too much. It's true that those who do are probably upset about it, though!
Also consider that the US power system is trivially 3-phase! We just don't wire all those phases to homes, as we a) don't generally see the need to, b) chicken-and-egg problem suggests that most people wouldn't be able to use it anyway, since appliances made for the US wouldn't be able to take advantage of it.
[0] https://electronics.stackexchange.com/questions/625353/is-3-...