There's a name for this feeling [1]
"and, in fact, it is a "contested illness" due to doubts about the legitimacy of the condition."
AND
"It was noted that in this case, however, the police were perceived to have acted with little care for the hostages' safety,[6] providing an alternative reason for their unwillingness to testify."
Somehow appropriate considering this thread is about how someone's bad experience with C++ has driven them into learning rust.