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A proper divisor is a positive integer divisor of n other than n. Examples: 1 is a proper divisor of all positive integers except 1, 2 is a proper divisor of all even integers except for 2, 3 is a proper divisor of 6, 9, ..
By all proper divisor of a specific positive integer n we mean the set of all positive integers that divide n and are less than n. In particular the set does not allow for repetition (you cannot count a proper divisor twice). So 1+2+2=5 is not valid since you are counting twice 2.
10 is not untouchable since 1,2,7 are all proper divisor of 14.
5 is untouchable because it cannot be 1+p+q with p < q since p > 1 so q > 3 so 1+p+q>5 (recall all proper divisor are distinct). It cannot also be 1+p because then p=4 and if 4 is a proper divisor also 2 is a proper divisor of a number so 1,4 is not the set of all proper divisor of any number