"I had got the same stalkerware policy. The problem was not the app itself but the description. In my case 'friend' and 'monitor' keyword can’t be used together."
"If your app description includes 'monitor' or 'track', don’t include any person related keywords such as 'friend', 'people', 'human'. If not, google considers your app can monitor the somebody’s activity."*
I wonder how many incredible apps will never be built because of how terrible the environment is. For me personally, I will never invest any of my time building software that has to go through anything like the current Apple or Google process, where you can be banned at any point for any reason, even no reason at all, with no recourse. I would bet that plenty of others feel the same and just nope out of developing smartphone apps.
A badly written AI(-ish) should not be able to screw your life this way.