> People are gay, trans, asexual, left handed and there is nothing they can do about it, as they have been born with that trait.

Do we actually know that yet though? Handedness seems to be genetic, but for the rest we really don't know the causes.

> "If you are born trans, that is okay, we accept you." ... this should be a acceptable view to you too.

Why? It shouldn't matter if it's innate, a development 'disorder', a choice, or a result of trauma or social contagion. We can just accept people anyway.