To replace drive in RAID1 you need to read the entirety of one drive.
Instead of reading one whole drive worth of stress, you're reading N drives worth of stress
But it is funny that the people making arguments about "stressing drives" don't even fucking know how RAID works...
Drive stress (for me) is mostly a concern about data loss.
... except now you have more drives that can fail.
With RAID6 yes, you can still fail one more time and still keep your data, which is why it is recommended.
Data safety wise I'd go RAID6 -> RAID1/10 (particularly linux implementation can do raid10 on odd number of drives which is nice) -> RAID5
https://jrs-s.net/2015/02/06/zfs-you-should-use-mirror-vdevs...
You still need 6/Z2 if you want to have reasonable fault tolerance, unless you want to waste ungodly amount of space.
We did had a big case so we just ran 2xRAID6 setup and that one time where it was needed we just replaced to bigger drives one by one, while using the removed ones as spares for other machines. But that's benefit of scale bigger than "a NAS server".
I got 2 so I’ll also replace the sibling of the dead 4TB one.
Listed survival probability of N-disk failure in 8-drive/4-vdev mirror.
1: 1; 2: 0.857; 3: 0.667; 4: 0.400; 5: 0; 6: N/A; 7: N/A; 8: N/A
Proper survival probability:
1: 1; 2: 0.857; 3: 0.571; 4: 0.229; 5: 0; 6: 0; 7: 0; 8: 0
Comparatively, survival probability for 8-drive RAIDz4 with equal amount of usable space:
1: 1; 2: 1; 3: 1; 4: 1; 5: 0; 6: 0; 7: 0; 8: 0
Personally, I'd use multi-vdev mirror pools only for data that is either backed-up or data I can afford to lose completely.