Being educated for huge cost is not that valuable.
Check the math on median college cost, vs median gain in income, compared to time spent, investing the cost instead, etc., and you can check it yourself.
Perhaps also factor in lifetime unemployment rates between education classes, and the difference becomes even greater.
Plus the future will likely reward the degreed even more, since that's the trend for decades.
I know a lot of people who were paid well to work in mind-numbing roles administering corporate processes and services, but hated it. I think I'd much prefer to explore a succession of less-skilled jobs where I learn on the job rather than spend years full-time in a formal college program where I dedicate my days to memorizing a multitude of meaningless factoids that I know I'll never use.
In my 40 year career writing software, the instruction I've valued the most came DURING my current job, part-time in night school, as opposed to full-time studies that took place prior to seeking work. I wasted probably 85% of my full-time undergrad years speculatively learning subject matter which didn't especially interest me but was required for admission to various professional degree ptograms, which unsurprisingly I never used (zoology, pre-med, pre-vet, etc).
Surely academia can be made more relevant to the skills that students see as being useful and actually will use than the centuries-out-of-date fare in the bachelors of arts. Until it is, I foresee many more impatient kids voting against college with their feet.
Plenty of studies show a strong correlation between income and happiness, with recent work extending this increase well into higher incomes.
Certainly your few anecdotes don't invalidate such large volumes of data across so many peer reviewed and replicated studies.
Other factors correlating with happiness include relationships and marriage, and a leading stress in marriage is lack of money.
I'm not saying pursuit of money alone is the goal, but it can provide stability, better health outcomes, security, often comes from jobs providing high satisfaction, and lack of it affects all of these.
Plenty of personally meaningful things pay so low as to be unsustainable. If those things weren't unsustainable, people would already do them.
Money at least helps provide capability to do some meaningful things not otherwise obtainable.
I’d be wary of generalizing based on skewed data like that. Control for conscientiousness (big five) or don’t bother because you’re just proving that the lazybones don’t want to work hard.
And even without those studies, when employers want to quickly screen out your lazy (low conscientiousness..) people, what do you think they can filter on most easily?
Bingo. And we're back to the expected value of college opening doors and provide better income is net positive.
I'm always surprised how many people try to object to simply digging into the data and evidence and work put into finding the value of higher education, as if their bias or anger or beliefs make a bit of difference to the facts.
Go look some up. The fact is the US system results in a larger percentage of college educated people, while providing significantly higher PPP adjusted disposable household income.
Removing college, for the most part, will dump youth into low-wage service jobs.
I still think there is a certain point to the anti-intellectualism association. If you’re if the mind that universities are involved in something of a scam, printing degrees for low-quality, low-effort students in exchange for those sweet, sweet loan dollars… that will naturally lead to folks having a raised eyebrow at work wondering if Timmy in the corner is really worth is salt or just has a gimme-degree not dissimilar from the perception issues of the Affirmative Action hires - one now begins to question if everyone, or just most, have a bullshit degree and an inability to really think… just another NPC.
It can and does erode societal trust.
Sure, we could do that in the US, too. Maybe not for 60% of the population, though. (In the US, 62.7% of high school graduates attend some additional schooling - though fewer graduate from college.)
No system is perfect, but the idea of paying for university (or making young people pay for university) still strikes me as bizarre and preposterous. What's the point of organized society if not providing education to improve everything for everyone?