Basically we live in the goldilocks zone of our galaxy.
Stars further towards the center are being constantly bombarded by types of radiation that make the formation of structured self-replicators almost impossible.Entropy rules.
Stars further towards the rim have not yet gone through enough generations to produce the abundant heavier elements needed.
We live in the zone that is both old enough and stable enough for technologically adept life to thrive, and we turned up on the scene about as early as we could.
So we are probably just one of the first.