You don't seem to understand what the paradox of tolerance is. You're also creating a strawman. No one thinks hate is inherently bad. Lots of people deserve to be hated for their actions. What people are opposed to is hate for people's immutable characteristics, backgrounds, or harmless life choices.
>You're speaking out here against a group. Why shouldn't you be deplatformed? Why should we tolerate your intolerance?
I'm not OP but it's because we're humans with brains who can make distinctions between groups that have odious opinion and those who don't.
Your arguments are really basic and if you're really curious you could spend some time reading about this subject instead of making arguments that would sound profound to a college freshman.