I very obviously meant that XYZ-particle states fall out of mode expansions of the XYZ-field, not that all particles are EM quanta.
> what i said is not backwards unless you use the inverse understanding of "exist". and how can photons exist without interaction?
Exactly the same way any other field configuration can? The state space of the free EM field simply is the photon Fock space.
The state space of an interacting 4D EM field is unknown and may well not exist, hence the need for perturbative approaches and renormalization - in which particle states again emerge as terms in the perturbation series.