If you look at the Hylo (formerly Val as of 3 days ago) language [0] that folks like Dave Abrahams have been working on, they're outright saying to just not use reference semantics if you can avoid it. In this talk at CppCon about Value Semantics, Dave argues that we should be decoupling object graphs from access to objects [1]. That's right folks, using `usize` indexes into collections, or adjacency lists, isn't just a hack to get around the borrow checker as people like Jonathan Blow have famously critiqued [2], it may just be the right way of doing things.