Personally I consider autopilots etc, boredom relieving devices not an improvement or even replacement for pilots in future. I feel much safer in a plane a human lands by hand than if a computer program could do it.
Also, the whole "software controlled fly by wire" still makes me uneasy. I feel much better when I know there are actual physical cables that let the pilot move control surfaces. In a huge plane I can understand the necessity of using a hydraulic system which can be made to be extremely reliable, but software?
Perhaps it's because I got to see how software is usually developed?
When a bridge or a building is built you get an architect (depending on country also the civil engineer) sign under his/hers responsibility this thing is not going to collapse and kill people. If it does and negligence is proven that person goes to jail for a long time. There is no equivalent in software.
When responsibility is distributed over countless people you often get unreliable products. Why is it we don't build buildings like this? Probably, because people died in shoddy built buildings, also everyone can see cracks in the walls etc. If a software runs badly it's not so obvious.
Sadly, I think more people will die before this 70+ year discipline will come even close to implementing the safety processes devised by millenia of expertise in fields like civil engineering. So what can a person do to lower the probability of getting hurt? Probably not much. If you have to fly, you usually don't get a choice of a plane (and even if you do it's usually an Airbus vs Boeing). But in other areas of life one has much more control. For example, I'll not drive a car that has a computer I can't disable that can slam the brakes any moment at highway speeds if it detects "something" in front.