> Granted, my experience with DEB has mostly been limited to Ubuntu - so it could be that/Canonical.
It is not a Canonical specificity, but it is overridable behavior.
For the dpkg prompting on configuration file changes:
https://raphaelhertzog.com/2010/09/21/debian-conffile-config...
> You can also make those options permanent by creating /etc/apt/apt.conf.d/local:
> Dpkg::Options { > "--force-confdef"; > "--force-confold"; > }
Along with invoking apt with -y (assume yes) will get you close to the behavior you seek. Or as a permanent setting:
APT::Get::Assume-Yes "true";