I appreciate the non-vanity aspect of it, and the aspiration to not turn people into bullet points. There's an intellectual honesty in that which, I think, shows that you're different from most people, in that you may be one of the few who just enjoys conversation with everyone without wanting something from them. There is not a great niche on the web for that, anymore. That trait, by the way, probably makes you easy to talk to and less likely to be lonely (in the long run).