There are so many people that participate in this and haven't realized yet that they are being an asshole to random strangers.
There are so many people that participate in this and haven't realized yet that they are being an asshole to random strangers.
Once a month there will be a link to some GitHub or issue where everyone will pile on about some stupid issue.
(There are multiple mods, though dang is the public face.)
If you see something, say something: by flagging every-day dreck, or by emailing mods in the case of something exceptionally bad.
I do both. Flagging is a daily thing, email for abuse / transgressions maybe a few times a quarter.
Edit: Clarified first 'graph.
I started doing this after some of my weblog posts (mostly about programming) ended up on Reddit and HN, and I read some of the comments on that. Some actual quotes (mostly from Reddit's /r/programming): “moron”, “idiot”, “retard”, “you must have an IQ lower than 65”, “fucking suck at making software (and I guess generally anything)”, “you’re like the anti-vaxxer of front-end development”, “this is hate speech” (context was about a technical topic they disagreed with, no politics at all involved).
And there's more ways to be unfriendly than using "bad words" like "idiot", such as not actually reading the post before commenting (frustratingly common), being excessively pedantic, very aggressive but without actually using insults, etc. I remember one guy who for some reason really had it in for me and did a line-by-line "rebuttal" on several posts, picking on the tiniest thing, resulting in some comments that were longer than the article article than he was responding to, but usually never really addressing the core point. Odd person shrug.
HN has been a bit better overall, though not perfect either.
I went there last night to read any first person accounts of the streamer riot yesterday in New York's Union Square. Instead there was a lot of racism and hate.
As a rough rule of thumb, the larger the sub, the worse it is. This holds true for communities in general in my experience – humanity doesn't really scale well to large groups.
For sure against TOS, but I'm not sure that I personally care.
Learned in the 90s early internet about the emotional harm that I’ve seen happen to people.
Slightly different topic. I think state and federal laws need to be passed regarding medical, police, evidence, and other types of private videos and photos from being leaked online. Too much of it magically leaks out and it’s just the people that are trusted with the data that are posting it online.
I watched for years.
Now it feels so gross…if someone is having the potentially-worst moment of their life, society should offer them the decency of not putting it on live TV.
From a NYT opinion piece[0] a few years ago:
> But “Cops” cameras, of course, are not news cameras, so unlike a traditional news crew, the shows’ producers have to obtain the written legal consent of every suspect whose face appears on camera. The producers of “Cops” claim they do. We found a different reality. Tracking down the people who have been filmed by “Cops” is not easy. But of the 11 suspects we interviewed, all but one said they either did not give their legal consent to appear on the show, were too inebriated to consent knowingly or were coerced into signing — with the police and producers, troublingly, working together to get those signatures.
[0] https://www.nytimes.com/2019/06/18/opinion/cops-podcast-inve...