Sure, if you ignore offloading all the hard work to a C library, we can pretend any language is as fast as any other. It's a boring conversation then though - might as well use Python...
Not to mention you still pay a real performance penalty for being unable to make direct use of RocksDB features, because Kafka is shoving a million "abstraction" and cache layers in there and you just want your your damned merge operator to apply.
I don't agree Kafka off the JVM is subpar. Kafka Streams has a lot of sharp edges from "abstractions" that aren't, Spark is a godawful developer experience and tuning it for performance is black magic for 99% of data engineers, and Flink keeps dithering about how consistent/stable baseline features like queries will be. You can stand up very good apps for a huge set of common cases just as quickly in Go or C++, and not have to deal with Kafka Streams's funny opinions about threads/tasks/consumers.