>the impacts of these plastics in real life is completely unknown
There's a huge body of research on endocrine disrupting chemicals, specifically from plastics, going back decades. The science is settled here.
https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S030372072...
The article links sources, but it's trivially googlable.
There's tons of evidence that these chemicals cause problems with sexual development and fertility, there's also lots of evidence that plastic containers leach them when microwaved. As the article states, it is obvious what people need to do. Glass containers are not expensive, and disposable food containers NOT made of plastic were commonplace up through the 90's and they can be again. Switching to glass and aluminum containers when possible is actually better for the environment as well, since they are actually recyclable whereas plastic is guaranteed to end up in a landfill eventually.
>Avoiding plastics can be extremely expensive
Tinfoil instead of plastic wrap, a glass Tupperware set is a few dollars more expensive instead of plastic, aluminum water bottles instead of plastic (actually cheaper than plastic bottles).
My family eliminated plastics from our lives and it cost us basically nothing. In what way is it extremely expensive?