I mean, I woke up one day and was half blind. Well, I could see out of my left eye, but it was all a blur. "Yes, I know that's a big E at the top of the eye chart, but it is a dark and light blur".
I've had both hands go numb. I could use them, mostly, but had to look at them to properly wash bread dough off of my hands. I couldn't feel it.
These things mostly got better after some time - I have MS, you see. It wouldn't be realistic to think that I could wake up and not be able to use my voice effectively or have some sort of hearing problem. Or not be able to walk well. Or a number of different things. And at least at first, I'd not think to use text relay either. I might not think about it for a few weeks - it might get better, after all. In the meantime, I'd be getting increasingly frustrated at society.
*Ironic typo mention below is fixed.
Or that the average reading level of people that are deaf in the US in 4th grade.
Yes, I failed to be inclusive of other sign languages. Learn the sign language that makes sense for your culture and environment, but learn a sign language!
ASL is based on LSF, or French Sign Language, because of a long history (more or less involving the person with the last name Gallaudet) but the main point is that a lot of sign languages descend from LSF. Much like how someone who only knows English can go to Germany or France or Italy and make out some of the basic words, the overlap between LSF descendants is pretty good for basic or everyday use. I'm semi-fluent in ASL and I've successfully communicated with people who use Irish Sign Language and German Sign Language (DGS).
The big stand-out is British Sign Language, or BSL. BSL's manual alphabet and root signs are dramatically different from LSF. (Since a lot of ASL words are initialized motions, like taking the first letter of the English or French word and using that handshape sign in a motion, BSL doesn't translate as quickly.)
the companies could take the burden here. it isn’t that difficult.
At least in the United States there are various apps and sites you can use that are free that will provide relay services. I had to avail myself of this a few times when some respiratory bug made me impossible to understand speaking but I could still type.
Seems free and easy to use, for both deaf people and people who can't use their phone. Available though smartphones or dedicated devices.
I think it's completely fair to expect someone to use this service for the occasional phone call.
I can understand not taking pretending as far as using a wheelchair though, seems you could too easily end up in situations where you have to try to explain No no I'm on the side of people with disabilities, I'm not taking the piss, etc.
iPhone, for example: https://support.apple.com/en-us/HT207033