Right, Japan's and South Korea's fertility rates are something to strive for /s
I think the reasons depopulation is generally depicted as a bad thing are: (1) if it happens too quickly then your society doesn't have enough young people working to support the old, (2) capitalism--the most effective economic engine we know of--works best with a growing population, and (3) states derive geopolitical advantage from having large populations.
Produce a child who will either suffer in his own ignorance or will suffer while aware of the ignorance that produced him. Great.