At the end of the day,this is the very point the SC and core devs are ignoring in their decision.

They do recognize the impact on the ecosystem will be huge, they recognize there will be at least 5 years of parallel gil/nogil versions(*), and they say they don't want a 2-3 story all over again.

Yet they have decided against their own best advise (to avoid such a situation).

I find it utterly confusing.

(*) not just one parallel version, there will be 2 for every release following the introduction. In reality organisations will have to maintain 4-6 different baselines of Python releases along with a matching (and likely differing) set of libraries. I don't mean to fearmonger, I just happen to maintain such environements and I know the effort that goes into this first hand.