For my part, I'm a fan of OCapN, but I am not sure how much time I can personally commit to it, with everything on my plate.
I wish I had better news here. This was a tragic loss for all of us.
For my part I stopped pushing monthly Sandstorm updates this year as there hasn't really been anything to push. Unfortunately Sandstorm's biggest dependencies can't even be updated anymore because of breaking changes that would take significant effort to work around.
I agree a blog post is probably in order.
Would you say that there have been user-friendly Docker/etc. wrappers for self-hosting LAN services? Someone has recommended casaOS (or the proprietary Umbrel), though I haven't tried either yet.
The best link I know is Christine Lemmer-Webber's post:https://octodon.social/@cwebber/110712988569475393
Also, are you on Matrix or Telegram or something of the sort? I was hoping I could ping you with the occasional question as I continue work on go-capnp.