You wouldn't/shouldn't choose NATS if your application needs different semantics.

NATS does not have stateful storage. So when a consumer disconnects and reconnects, there is nowhere for NATS to store the messages temporarily. You can solve this by storing messages in a stateful storage first, then use NATS as a way to distribute them. You would need your own mechanism to replay messages on reconnect. This is coincidentally what Jetstream does. It uses NATS internally as a network protocol, but it's a separate thing.