>I'm just repeating a commonly held belief, hence the upvotes
That possibility ("a commonly held belief") indeed is the reason I thought it worth engaging.
I don't think I can see your upvotes, and discussing voting is against the guidelines.
>It's not as if I came up with this opinion out of thin air.
It would be unreasonable to assume you did. Yet that doesn't give me a hint where your opinions do come from, which is why I was - and am - asking.
>You don't know me.
That was the gist of my whole comment. It's unfortunate if the meaning of the whole thing was somehow inverted.
>You can't possibly know something like this from one comment on the internet
Something like what? You quoted a sentence that tried to communicate, in short, nobody can judge you.
My entire comment was a disclaimer or admission that I know nothing about you nor can I judge you, and a solicitation of information.
>It seems that others have said this to you in the past, and you are just parroting it to me
Every word I wrote was original to me and expressed my thoughts at least for one particular moment.
Do you think repeating beliefs that others hold is bad? I don't think it's good or bad in itself. By the repetition of an idea, you make it your own, and there is always a good reason for doing so...but that reason is unique to you and not made clear unless you choose.
Asking about your reasons may seem intrusive, like asking if you want to open yourself to bullying from all and sundry, but I strongly believe in this principle:
What convinces you of a thing is the best possible argument for convincing other people
Constructive dialogue on anything cannot take place without some willingness to treat discussion as more than a tactical game.
Not participating in constructive dialogue is everyone's right. The benefit to you, the carrot and not the stick, is that you might one day rightly convince someone, somewhere, in the world of something you believe in.
Who knows, you could be the first person to convince anyone of anything on the internet in the last half century.