If you have even a half hearted belief in meritocracy that represents a failure of epic proportions.
As a top 10%-er wouldn't qualify for a mortgage to buy the house I grew up in.
This wasn't an accident. The country has been on the road to serfdom and ever since Thatcher violently crushed the Labour unions.
I'm curious, what do you think "half hearted belief in meritocracy" consist of? From the rest of your comment, it sounds like any sort of economic system where you can earn money without the effort of yourself (ie. investment) isn't meritocratic?
Doing well in your career means nothing because the benefits are a rounding error on the rewards of having wealthy parents or getting into bitcoin early or whatever.
Quite apart from being grossly unfair it's grossly inefficient to structure the economy so that unearned income is privileged and dominates.
Part of the difference may be that none of us have lived in HCOL areas.
They would tell me that their retirement plan was a bullet.
I'm glad you're doing well though.
But you're making a bigger number, so it's fine! Don't mind those that own everything unofficially taxing those that own nothing with inflation.
E.g. an entry level job on Wall Street might have paid $15k/yr and a really nice apartment was $150k…a 10x spread - today that entry level job is say $150K but the same apartment is like $3-5m closer to a 25x spread…