That's 1.1GB.
That's horrifying because, theoretically, it should be a tiny, tiny fraction of that: on bare-metal we can run PHP + MySQL (let alone SQLite) + Apache within a few dozen MB of RAM.
(Historical personal anecdote: my first-ever dev-server machine I built before high-school ran Windows Server 2003, IIS, SQL Server, and Adobe Photoshop 7.0 (in a Terminal Services session) concurrently just fine well-within 256MB with little-to-no paging)
Let's be generous and assume that 64MB should be a reasonable upper-bound (though I think that getting it under 16MB should be possible), in which case what exactly is the other 1.09GB of RAM being used for?