Unfortunately, they probably don't want you either. They want the person who is looking to grow their blog and expand their followers. Not surprising that their product principles would reflect that.
The fediverse would be my answer but I'm curious what others think.
[1]: https://havenweb.org
[2]: https://micro.blog
Sorry, couldn't resist!
$ sudo touch grassThis is the unfortunate consequence of an advertising-based business model. It offers you a shortcut to growth - a panel with a buttons labeled "More". More ads. More obnoxious ads. More sneaky ads. More manipulative ads. More people exposed, and exposed more often. There are many ways to grow that involve actually improving the product and user experience. But pressing one of the "More" buttons on the ad-panel is always easier, and gives you more money faster.