I might use a word other than irreversible. At a glance, a wishful brain can see “This is reversible”. A vocabulary challenged brain may think “oh cool, it’s reversible”, or revert to the wishful thinking brain.
Ideas:
- ALL YOUR STUFF WILL BE GONE FOREVER
- YOUR ACCOUNT CANNOT BE RESTORED
- IT IS IMPOSSIBLE TO RESTORE YOUR ACCOUNT
The thing they keep asking you to do is undelete. Tailor your messaging to explicitly indicate the opposite of the outcome users keep asking for. Irreversible requires some interpretation, even though it probably makes perfect sense to most people.
(Hard learned lessons after years in enterprise product management. It’s amazing how many odd conclusions users can reach about seemingly obvious labels and messages).
Not much to be done about the ones who don’t read at all.