For you, it's always the homework problems that your teacher assigned you in grade school, nothing else is intelligent. What to say to someone to have them be your friend on the playground, that never counted. Where and when to show up (or not), so that the asshole 4 grades above you didn't push you down into the mud... not intelligence. What to wear, what things to concentrate on about your appearance, how to speak, which friendships and romances to pursue, etc.
All just "animal cunning". The only real intelligence is how to work through calculus problem number three.
They were smart enough at these things that they did it without even consciously thinking about it. They were savants at it. I don't think the AI has to be a savant though, it just has to be able to come up with the right answers and responses and quickly enough that it can act on those.