I thought those supposed "anti-trans remarks" were actually quite astute. Many of the men who decide to trans themselves are doing so to try to become a sex object, a fulfillment of their lonely desires. They'll dress it up in the language of civil rights and identity, but underneath all that is the impulse of sexual desire and belonging.
Conversely, women tend to trans themselves for the opposite sort of reason, to escape the sexual objectification pushed onto them by society.