The good tools are expensive, both Sumologic and Wavefront are amazing, but past a certain scale it's hard to justify the cost.
On the open source side Grafana and its stack (tempo, loki and prometheus) all just suck, they kinda scale and check all the boxes, but in a really stupid way (data nodes should probably be query nodes, rather than moving everything from storage and caching, everything is supposed to be a dashboard, don't get me started on the query languages).
The Grafana UI was built by the enemy and explorations are incredibly annoying. I'm more of an exploratory user, not a dashboard one (think level 3 on-call).