One aspect of gravity waves is that other than being extremely weak, they cannot perform work. So they don't cause mechanical forces.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sticky_bead_argument
On the other hand, I definitely agree that gravitational waves are almost certainly too weak to cause any tectonic effects.
However, we can also measure things that don’t do work, for example, a static magnetic field does no work on a charged particle (it cannot change its kinetic energy) but look at the swirls in a cloud chamber and it’s clear as day if there’s a magnetic field there.
Edit: ah, you mean for any practical purposes. Duh.