Matt, the founder of WP, has his own way of dealing with feedback and objections
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I don't use Wordpress. I am on Facebook, do I think they care how their site should work? Why should they care what my opinion is? Because i am a user, I get to complain and get my way?
This attitude that users dictate how products and sites should function only brings to mind the Henry Ford quote in the Steve Jobs book. If Ford had asked people what they wanted, they would have asked for a faster horse.
Apple has made a very successful business out of not building faster horses. If you want it your way, start your own business.
MW has obviously been successful at a blogging platform and service (maybe other stuff, don't know his full history). My point about the Ford quote is that maybe he has a good vision for how his service should be run.
There is always going to be tension between the producers of a service and the consumers of that service. Neither could exist without the other, but I tend to feel that the exceptional people who have succeeded where others have failed should be given more credit.
People can armchair quarterback all they want but until and unless you see things from Wordpress.com's users perspective, you won't get the point.
Hope no one brings out the "free card" here.
One does the business they way he wants. If customers don't like your way they are free to leave.
If the business survives this kind of bleeding, then the business model was right anyway.
Less support trouble, less costs, and the troublemakers go away.
Of course, I would never tell straight to my customers that if they don't like a feature they can go to h3ll, but guess what, thet are not going anywhere else.
Now, if the service is low margin and low volume you can't afford losing customers. But if you have high margins, high volumes or a combination of both then a community that gets to vocal becomes a PR problem.
Think about gaming communities like Eve-Online... would you want your business be dictated by too angry and too vocal customers?
Those are not customer anymore, are a cost and costs must be purged.
Of course being frank about it makes one look like a bad guy, things that is happening here.
Nonetheless you have to break eggs to make an omelette.