Conda is a fucking nightmare. Luckily you can usually just use pip to get the same packages.
Conda isn’t perfect but takes on a lot of problems that pip doesn’t deal with at all. Regular conda is really slow these days but you can use mamba instead or just configure conda to use the libmamba solver and it’s much nicer.
The folks at prefix.dev seem to be building some pretty cool drop in replacements for conda too.