> Maybe you’re spending too much time on giant subreddits
I think this is definitely the case for a lot of people who use reddit. My advice to everyone I've recommended Reddit to is:
1. Sign up for an account
2. Unsubscribe from every subreddit you're subscribed to by default
3. Join smaller communities like <list of subreddits that I think they might be interested in>
Take gaming as a topic for example; /r/gaming has over thirty million subscribers, which is insane. There's no way that space can be welcoming or foster a sense of community.
Instead, look for something more specific, like /r/NintendoSwitch, /r/PS5, /r/BaseBuildingGames, and so on. You can also look for more cross-topical subreddits, like /r/GirlGamers, /r/AccessibleGaming, /r/Gaymers or /r/LGBTgaming, and so on.
This is the distinction that so many of these Reddit clones miss; I'm not just looking to get a feed of links, I want to get to know and recognize people, learn others' perspectives, and get a real sense of what these people are like. I want to be able to bring up things like the trans and antisemitism concerns around Hogwarts Legacy without being drowned out by (or targeted for harassment by) transphobes and nazis.