Maintaining a redundant IR just to be able to transform attributes wasn't a price I was willing to pay for a fun side project so since Elm really didn't want me to work with the generated html the way I wanted to I looked around and decided to give Yew a try. Unlike Elm, Yew gives you a way to include arbitrary html in the rendered output. Accessing third party javascript with wasm-bindgen is also much simpler than using ports or custom elements in Elm.
Well after playing around with Yew a bit I found myself missing the effortless refactoring experience I had working in Elm so I decided to come back to Elm and go with a hybrid approach. Now I have static html/css with small Elm modules for forms and simple views and a completely separate app does the transformation. This wasn't the architecture I originally had in mind but overall I like it better.
Having said all that I can sympathize with the author's frustration. It's really really irritating when you encounter something that you think should have a trivial solution but turns out to be hard in Elm because of the choices the Elm developers made. In my case I felt like I was on a luxury cruise that was fun 99% of the way until finding out their policy was that I had to swim the last 1% on my own.