Since I care about a fast efficient web experience far more than I care about leaving digital footprints around, I choose the extension that says yes to everything.
Asking me if I'd like to allow various cookies is by far the least important part of the problem. Relying in the cooperative efforts of site owners? Really?
It's not just that - some services are literally unrenderable without cookies! (Fewer these days at least).
If someone says a cookie is non-essential and rejecting it results in their site not working that’s on them - a human might manually choose to reject it, it’d be the same end result.
(Yes, I manually click or click click for every website. Also I don't think that EU "broke the internet", rather they made me painfully aware that every f.in website uses cookies and other tracking methods just to give my browsing history to ~300 total random company for no reason.)
https://addons.mozilla.org/en-US/firefox/addon/consent-o-mat... (Firefox)
https://chrome.google.com/webstore/detail/consent-o-matic/md... (Chrome)
https://consentomatic.au.dk/ (Official site)