Why reply that criticism of Apple must be purely an emotional one? Kind of diminishes your argument here.
Immediate search result for repairable phones:
https://www.androidcentral.com/best-sustainable-repairable-p...
https://shop.fairphone.com/en/buy-fairphone-4
Here's a laptop that you can upgrade:
Lifetime for Apple isn't as long as you make it out to be when batteries need replaced and software support for hardware ends:
https://arstechnica.com/gadgets/2023/06/macos-sonoma-drops-s...
"Also, what you heard about locked down components resulted in better security, a much lower risk of theft, and a much more clean second-hand market (where you won’t be sold a phone with a cheap chinese shittier screen for example)."
Apple could just release stuff that didn't break so easily too so no need to risk changing out a screen if it ain't broke. There are plenty of ways to increase security of the device without making it less consumer friendly.
Additionally since the context here is whether Apple has been hacker friendly or not, why shouldn't you be allowed to upgrade and change the hardware of YOUR device? As in, you want to put in more storage or change the screen to one that's better in some manner (maybe it's just cost) then you ought to be able to.
That is it should be the device owners choice whether or not to replace their screen with one from Apple or a cheaper one.