> But I think you buried the lede.

> In retrospect, I've concluded that the real problem they faced is they'd built a life dependent on a physician or surgeon's income. They were told they were building a castle, but instead they built a prison. The fact is, you just can't spend enough money to truly escape the stresses of your work, but you can certainly spend enough money to become shackled to it.

I don't know why you're making the leap in assuming that, just because you knew some physicians and surgeons who seemed to be inflating their lifestyle to match a high income, that OP is necessarily doing the same. There's no indication in their post of any of that.