If you're paying wordpress.com $300/year for all their features, I can highly recommend switching to AWS Lightsail for 90% savings. Exorbitant pricing.
My point: this highly motivated but completely inexperienced woman was able to build a website on her own and get very close to launching.
I have no experience with AWS Lightsail. I'm sure it's a fine platform, but to me WordPress.com is really making the web accessible to a lot of people that otherwise wouldn't have access. Maybe it's not worth it to many with a tech background, but for her, WordPress.com is making her dreams come true.
Some notes on how I recovered from that here: https://til.simonwillison.net/aws/recovering-lightsail-data
Maybe they've fixed that issue now? This happened to me in 2021.