Isn't that just an issue with the J&J vaccine?

Some of your points are perfectly valid but nobody is waging a war against the unvaccinated, other than bugging them to get vaccinated.

Both me and a parent have blood clotting disorders (hers worse than mine fwiw) and the vaccine wasn't an issue (Moderna and pfizer).

Was getting it a risk? Ya. But I saw enough people die from it and didn't want to spread the virus to other old people.