And I’ve not seen anything like that in the, albeit casual, contact I’ve had with the Lisp community since then (mostly IRC). I think the Lisp community has always been quite friendly. Especially today.
Just my experience, I wouldn’t let that one experience drive you away. Modern books a projects in the field are excellent and exciting.
To your question, I’ve never really left Lisp, it’s just not been a good fit with my work or colleagues. But I will forthrightly say I’ve argued against it when a developer wanted to incorporate Clojure into our enterprise project. I didn’t feel it was worth introducing for a couple hundred lines of code since nobody else on the team knew it.