For what its worth, I think it would be great if standards groups wrote up robust test suites to go along with their standards.
For example, commonmark has a test suite with hundreds of machine readable input / output examples. Each example has some input markdown text, and an expected parsing result. Any compliant commonmark implementation can use that as a test / conformance suite during development. As a user, result is you can be pretty sure every spec-conforming implementation will interpret the same markdown text the same way.
During Chrome's development they built something similar. They gathered the HTML from hundreds of real websites and made browser-independent data sets showing how that HTML must be parsed. That freed up the team to try out wild optimizations, with certainty that they wouldn't break compatibility. When Microsoft copied Javascript into IE, I assume they did something similar to make sure they parsed javascript in an identical way to how Netscape Navigator parsed JS.
It would be harder for a complex protocol like bluetooth, but it would be fantastic to have a "bluetooth tester" device which tried out a lot of the strange things real bluetooth devices do to make sure any implementation is compatible with any other implementation. You can tell a device like this doesn't exist (or its not very good) because of how abysmal cross-device bluetooth compatibility is in general. (Linux doesn't work properly with either my bluetooth keyboard or mouse because, while both devices apparently work on windows and macos, they don't properly adhere to the spec.)
If SQL were a better written spec, it wouldn't have random incompatibilities like that.