This is asked all the time. Google "economy growth reddit" and you'll see a bunch of posts questioning why it's important.
> I deal with it regularly, since my office is a standalone, off grid power system. I just use less energy, by an order of magnitude or so, in the winter - and I bundle up out here.
I mean, yes, on margin for a single person, this reduces overall energy consumption. However, cities are more energy-efficient per capita.
Take a look at the energy expenditure per-capita states by state, and you'll see that the states with the smallest energy expenditure per-capita generally have the largest cities, and the ones with the most energy expenditure are rural states: https://www.eia.gov/state/seds/data.php?incfile=/state/seds/....