So the lack of free life choices for women is the load bearing piece of our society?
Obviously such is not the case for literal human existence, but we aren’t that far removed from orangutans; it does seem possible to me that human society (mostly invented hundreds or thousands of years ago, mostly by men with dim views on women) could have oppression of women as a load-bearing component. Some of the radical feminist thinkers in earlier waves certainly believed this was true, it was part of their argument that society needs to be completely rebuilt.